Jessamyn
West once said, “I
am always jumping into the sausage grinder and deciding, even before I’m half
ground, that I don’t want to be a sausage after all.” How often has that
happened to you? You thought you wanted sausage but in the end, it was really
something else. There is nothing more disappointing than a collision of indecision
and a lot of unhappiness about the final results.
Are you jumping into the design process?
This straightforward advice may seem too simple for some, especially the linear
type, but it is the ultimate make or break of an overall design. Know what you
really want. First, before stepping off the design deep end, there are certain
factors (i.e., topography, wind exposure, site conditions, wetland restrictions,
septic system etc.) that can’t be changed or altered and influence the design
criteria. But once this is determined, the rest of the design process is truly
about your lifestyle and budgetary choices.
Seems like simple advice but when given
a palette of design options, many folks hit decision overload, forgetting what
they like and how they live. An indecisive person ultimately picks things he or
she doesn’t even want. It has nothing to do with the design or the process. It has
more to do with what makes it into the grinder in the first place. In the end, you didn’t
want to be a sausage after all.
There is no cure for indecision but there is hope
when you need to make design decisions. Understand your lifestyle, your habits,
and what you want to draw inside and out of your home. A design team helps weed
through this process with pros and cons but ultimately the only person that
knows what you want is the person immersed into your lifestyle everyday – you
and nobody else. Don’t jump into the sausage grinder and decide half way
through, it was ground beef you wanted or better yet, tofu. There’s nothing
worse than ending up with the wrong sandwich and ultimately, although many
things can dictate a design, you, the homeowner, are ultimately in design control.
And as Jarod Kintz reminds us about this process, “I couldn't decide whether to
take a nap or not, so I did what I always do when thinking over a decision—I
slept on it.” This
is the best advice for anyone on design decision overload.
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